The unsaid truth

 Dear M,

I recently saw a post on Instagram and I thought of  sharing it with you.

what if someone invented a machine that allowed women to transfer their pregnancies to men and the government passed a law that if a woman didn't want to have a baby the biological father was required to carry it, how fast do you think birth control would stop being an issue?

I believe, telling a woman who says she doesn't want kids "you'll change your mind " is really shitty!!!

it's  assigning motherhood to a person who is explicitly rejecting it! it's reinforcing gender roles!! it makes motherhood to be something you do because you have to, not because you genuinely want to!!! it's telling a grown woman that you know what she wants better than she does!!!!

Let me know what your think.

With love

Oluwatoyosi,

Crvena.